Embracing My Next Chapter: From Military to Drag

As I sit down to write this first entry, I'm filled with a mix of emotions—excitement, fear, anticipation, and a touch of nostalgia for the life I'm leaving behind. Transitioning from the structure and predictability of military life to the uncertainty of civilian existence is daunting, to say the least. But amidst the uncertainty, there's an undeniable sense of liberation, a feeling that I'm finally stepping into my own truth.

For the past 15 years, the military has been my home, my purpose, and my identity. I had it all planned out—I was going to serve my country until I reached the age of 46, retire with honor, and move on to the next phase of my life. But life has a funny way of throwing curveballs when you least expect it, and circumstances beyond my control have led me to depart a decade earlier than planned.

The past decade has been a period of survival, of navigating through challenges and adapting to unforeseen changes. But now, as I stand on the threshold of this new chapter, I'm filled with a renewed sense of purpose. It's time for more than just survival—it's time to thrive, to truly embrace life and become the person I've always wanted to be.

And who is that person? A drag king. Yes, you read that right. Embracing my identity as a drag king is both terrifying and exhilarating. It's a departure from everything I've known, a chance to explore a side of myself that has been waiting in the wings for far too long.

But more than just donning a new persona, this journey is about self-discovery and self-love. It's about stepping out of the shadows and into the spotlight, embracing every aspect of who I am without apology or hesitation. It's about reclaiming my agency and rewriting the narrative of my life on my own terms.

So, as I embark on this journey, I invite you to join me. This blog will serve as a chronicle of my experiences, a testament to the highs and lows of self-discovery and transformation. There will be challenges along the way, moments of doubt and insecurity, but I'm determined to face them head-on.

My mission is simple: to become the best version of myself. To live a life engulfed in love, both for myself and for the world around me. And I hope that by sharing my journey, I can inspire others to embark on their own paths of self-discovery and authenticity.

So here's to new beginnings, to stepping into the unknown with courage and conviction. Wish me luck—I have a feeling I'm going to need it. But more than luck, I'm counting on love, both from within and from those who choose to walk this path alongside me.

Let the adventure begin.