The beauty of life is that we always have the opportunity to start over, to reset, and to refocus on what truly matters. Today, I’m making a conscious effort to realign with my values. I’m choosing to step away from the negativity, drama, and self-serving behaviors that have clouded my mind and my message.

Resetting doesn’t mean pretending that these moments never happened. It means acknowledging them, understanding why they happened, and then making a deliberate choice to do better. It’s about taking accountability for my actions and making amends with myself first and foremost.

This past weekend was an incredible celebration of pride in my town, and I was thrilled to be a part of it. I learned so many lessons from performance modification to audience interaction and dressing room etiquette. I have been filled with gratitude for everyone involved! From the supportive community to the fantastic performers, and the hardworking organizers and volunteers. This weekend was filled with so much energy and joy, so I want to share the experience with everyone!

Drag kings are not just relevant; they are essential to drag culture. Their presence brings diversity, breaks down stereotypes, fosters community, broadens appeal, and celebrates incredible talent. Including drag kings in your lineup is a surefire way to draw in a crowd and create unforgettable, inclusive drag events. The mindset that only drag queens bring in a crowd is outdated because it fails to recognize the diversity, talent, and evolving interests of today's drag audiences. By embracing a more inclusive approach, venues can create more engaging, and successful drag shows.

Writing this blog, creating a social media presence, competing in pageants, and performing on stage have been some of the most fulfilling experiences of my life. Drag has allowed me to challenge societal expectations and celebrate my uniqueness. It’s a reminder that we all have the power to define ourselves on our own terms.

As we celebrate this 4th of July, let’s reflect on the meaning of patriotism and focus on celebrating the diversity within our nation. Being a military veteran, a drag king, and a queer person, I understand the unique perspective that comes with balancing pride in our country with the ongoing struggle for equality.

drag performers bring the party! Their energy, creativity, and talent infuse Pride events with joy and excitement. Whether it's a glittering parade, a lively drag show, or a heartfelt performance, drag artists create spaces where people can come together, celebrate their identities, and feel a sense of belonging. Their shows are full of energy, creativity, and a sense of freedom that’s infectious. From parades to clubs to virtual performances, drag artists bring the sparkle to Pride. Their performances are a reminder that being LGBTQ+ is something to be proud of and celebrated.

The Stonewall Uprising is significant for several reasons; it wasn’t just a fabulous rebellion, it was a seismic shift in the LGBTQ+ rights movement. It marked a shift from passive acceptance of discrimination to active resistance. It galvanized the LGBTQ+ community, leading to the formation of numerous advocacy groups and organizations dedicated to fighting for queer rights.

As we celebrate the anniversary of the federal legalization of gay marriage, it is essential to reflect on our journey and the progress we have made. My marriage may not have lasted, but the significance of that moment and what it represented for the LGBTQ+ community remains deeply meaningful. It was a time of hope and possibility, a glimpse of a future where love and commitment are honored and respected, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

Pronouns are more than just words; they are an extension of a person's identity. Using the correct pronouns is a sign of respect and acknowledgment. It's like getting someone's name right—simple, yet profoundly impactful. Misgendering someone, even unintentionally, can be hurtful and invalidating. So if you want to be a true ally to the drag community, getting pronouns right is very important.

I wanted to address the misconception that drag is synonymous with sex. Let’s dive deep into a topic that’s been misunderstood, twisted, and downright sensationalized by some corners of society. I’m talking about drag entertainers and the persistent, misguided notion that drag is inherently sexual

This isn’t just a date on the calendar; it’s a symbol of the long, hard battle for freedom that African Americans have endured. It’s a day to remember the systemic injustices and the tireless fight against them—a struggle that, in many ways, continues today. It serves as a powerful reminder of the long and ongoing fight for freedom and equality. It highlights the resilience and strength of those who endured slavery and fought for their rights, underscoring the importance of continuing to address racial injustices today.

The guidance, support, and love from all of the incredible drag fathers has shaped countless lives, helping performers find their true selves and shine bright. This Father’s Day, let’s celebrate these fabulous fathers who have made a difference and make the world a more colorful, accepting, and glittery place. Their legacy of mentorship and family is a testament to the power of love, acceptance, and community. Happy Father’s Day to all the drag fathers out there – you are loved and appreciated more than words can say. Now, let’s strut our stuff and show them how it’s done!

Pulse Remembrance Day is a solemn reminder of the fragility of life and the importance of standing together in the face of hate. As we remember the 49 lives lost, let us also commit to honoring their legacy by creating a world where love and acceptance prevail.